People will test you to see if your walk matches your talk. Don’t fail.
It is my greatest hope that you mean what you say and say what you mean. Be the person whose words matter. I get so confused sometimes when people approach me with disrespect and disregard ESPECIALLY when I am a very vocal advocate of healthy relationships, strong boundaries, and self-esteem. However, I had to realize that some people really want to know how real it is. Some people want to see if you are who you say you are. You will never be perfect, but you have to be cognizant and constantly strive for authenticity and strength to be who you say you are. With every choice you make you decide exactly who you are.
Don't just talk the talk, walk it too!